Saturday, September 12, 2009

You care for a man... Let him plan

So it all happened a few days ago, when a friend of mine came to meet me after a very long time. We were together for about one and a half hours. Through out the time, either she was talking over the phone or she was text-ing messages on the phone, we even said our goodbyes while she was talking over phone. I didn't show her, but honestly it pissed me off. And I was not the only person who was getting irritated, the person on the other side of the phone would also be in the same agony. Actually she was insisting her boy-friend (person on other side of phone) to come to Noida from Shahdra(Delhi) at about 8 PM, just to pick her to Dhaula Kuan, the other end of Delhi. When she told me this, I was like 'What the F?" I said," You want a person to cross the traffic of Delhi at the peak hour, just to be your driver? Plus he is not nearby, he would be coming from about 20 KM, then he'll take you to some place which is about 2 hours run from here wihtout traffice jams. When would 'he' reach back his home?"
But it was none of her concern, she said calmy,"This is love. If he loves me, he'll do that. Atleast we'll meet."
Girls! take my advice. Being a guy I can tell you, this is one of the most torturous thing a girl can do to a guy. Testing his love by these filthy means. Think rational. How can you expect a person, who has attended the office throughout the day, to travel for about 5 hours just to meet you. Plus what do you expect this meeting would be like? It would be full of fighting and irritation, a blame-game. Then you girls say you 'care'. If this is care, then I would like to be harsh to say that you girls only care to call, to text, to talk, to meet, to cuddle, to carress, to tease, to satify your libido, to test his patience and to test his love. You don't care about 'him'.
If you girls claim that you care, then let him plan. Don't try to control him, just be controlled and he'll be controlled by you :) Ya! I know it sounds very complex. But so are relationships. I read somewhere that in a relationship, just 'Have a heart'. To take this advice, just 'Have a big heart' and let him do what he wants to and pretty soon he'll be doing what you have always wanted... and that also for life. Trust me on that!
One more thing, I know women are multi-tasking, but please keep your this skill aside when you have come to meet a guy. Better if you remember this next time :)

I created this picture of Radha and Shyam, a long time ago, but as I was ill yesterday and had a lot of time, I filled in some pencil colors and am presenting now, first colorful sketch out of my carton. Hare Krishna!

8 comments:

AMBUJ JOSHI said...

Agreed totally! Girls might get offended though .. girl ego :D

krsna said...

Hare Krsna for the awesome, blissfull, Pious .... pic. I am your fan as u know for Sketching. But today I liked your Coloring scheme(selection of colors). Man what a blog you have written it is eye opener.. really Girls learn from here (deep thought man!!!) - At last Nice Blog.

The Cartoon said...

Thanku thanku :)

Chetan Katoch said...

Dude I have a new job oppurtunity for you .............become an ...Agony Aunt. hahhahahaha

Chetan Katoch said...

BTW post this maharani's name so that rest of the male population could be alarmed.

The Cartoon said...

@Chetan: All women are melodrama queens... you can find this 'maharani' everywhere around you :) ha ha

ankita said...

The picture is awesome.. mindblowing.. stupendous.. truly amazing... :)

Valli said...

Came across this post through google search....picture of Radha KRishna is just awesome!